Problem: Boring busyness is the kiss of death for marriages. Solution:
Pull a date out of a hat? (100s of go-to date ideas for busy couples)
Every day you spend many, many hours that you'll never think about again
.
Often we pass entire hours, days too, even weeks that are without powerful
memories-- and regrettably for some of us, there are entire months of normal,
everyday busyness that more or less just disappear into the void.
Hello, boooooorrrrrriiiinnnngggg…thy name is modern routine.
Of course, it's neither possible -- nor probably even desirable-- for every
minute of every day of every week in our lives to be exceptional.
But one thing is for sure: no one sets out to live a life where every hour, day,
week and month ends up being basically forgettable, either.
That must especially be true for couples.
Because boring busyness can be the kiss of death for relationships-- and is
among the top reasons for marriages to end prematurely (you know, before death).
In that vein, I want to make a personal confession.
Whenever I'm about to make a plan for quality alone time with my wife -- too
often, I find myself procrastinating.
Urgent thoughts of what I need to do immediately, and the general hectic pace of
the week give me pause. Yet frankly, some of the reasons why we supposedly
can't make time to go on a date together are freakin' absurd.
The other day I realized it had been too many weeks since my wife and I were
last out of the house alone-- together, without kids, having zero errands to
run, no tasks to complete and with no agenda except enjoying one another's
company.
Here's what we did to conquer the procrastination impulse, blast off from
boring busyness, slay the urgency addiction dragon and get us back out there
regularly enjoying quality time together:
Pull a date out of a hat? (100s of go-to date ideas)
I truly believe marriages are dying every day because of couples' failures to
continue dating-- years and decades after the courtship period-- when it feels
hard to make time due to our urgency addictions, modern busyness,
procrastination and inertia.
Let's not let that be (y)our marriage dying, ok?
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Mr. Cubic Zirconia
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P.S. TLDR: "NOW" IS THE BEST TIME FOR RELATIONSHIP TIME.
In the busyness of modern life, we must make time to date our significant other
regularly-- especially after marriage and children. It's important…but IT'LL
NEVER BE URGENT (until and unless it becomes almost too late). Marriages live
and die by quality time together. YOU'LL ONLY REGRET THE TIME YOU DIDN'T SPEND
(when he or she is gone). Make it easy despite a busy life by creating a date
ritual with some basic pre-planning of what to do, where and how.
Pull a date out of a hat? (100s of go-to date ideas for busy couples)
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